Kama Sutra: Living the Sensuous Lifestyle, Part 1

Posted on May 19, 2013 by Chloė

It is true that The Kama Sutra is a sex manual instrumental for those who want to get it on with their partner. But it is much more than that.

The Kama Sutra is not only the Hindu guide to lovemaking, but considered a masterpiece about human sexual behavior, etiquette and relationships. It is the perfect point of reference for every independent escort and hobbyist who want to become connoisseurs of sensual pleasure. There are several themes that weave the fabric of The Kama Sutra. Let’s take a cursory look at some of them:

Confidence prevails over sexual prowess

It is not about how good a man is at pleasing his lover but about how he can build confidence in his partner. A man who builds confidence in his partner will make her more receptive to his advances. This is his primary responsibility when seducing his lover. Roles are reversed with regard to independent escorts. The Kama Sutra believes that courtesans (or companions) are necessary components of society to build men’s confidence (this subject will be explored in a future article).

Persistence will win a woman

The Kama Sutra preaches persistence over “easy” love, natural mates and biological instinct. Whether a hobbyist or not, a man should realize that every woman requires persistent attention to break down her defenses and win her over. What better way to enhance intimacy? While viewed as discriminatory by some, learning the lessons of The Kama Sutra will enable a man to get any woman he wants.

Love is a game

Winning the affection of your partner is a sort of dance, a game to be played wherein lovers manipulate each other. While a man should show off in front of his woman and pretend not to like her, he should persistently offer signs of affection to build her confidence. On the other hand, an independent escort should shower a hobbyist with attention to demonstrate that he is the only one for her as long as they are together. It is even better when her affections are natural!

The four types of love

There is love by habit, love by imagination (possibly infatuation), mutual love and love that is not categorized. The latter is considered to be the most powerful of all. I would venture to say that love by imagination characterizes some escort/hobbyist relationships in the form of intoxicating lustful infatuation.

Learn the principals that support living a sensuous lifestyle

City Girls believes that understanding the inner workings of human sexual behavior taught by The Kama Sutra will ultimately enhance and enrich relationships between independent escorts and hobbyists. We can all benefit from a sense of freedom that exists when our sexuality is liberated!

How to Smell Seductive on Your Date

Posted on March 24, 2013 by Chloė

How important is scent to a woman? Well. Let me tell you, lovers. A captivating scent can make the difference between hitting a home run with an escort and just getting to first base!

Don’t go overboard, guys. Smelling seductive on a date is a fine blend between your pheromones shining through and triggering desire with scent. Leave your lover wanting more!

Taking a shower is super sexy

While this topic may sound redundant to many hobbyists (oh Chloe! We’ve all heard this a thousand times), I guarantee that by the end of this article, you will have a new perspective on how to be sexy! Being attractive is not limited only to an escort. Start by taking a nice, hot shower and wash with a neutral soap or body wash that is not scented. When you are all finished, your body will be a fresh palate upon which you will dab your scent in places that matter.

Use a neutral deodorant

I hate to say it but the only thing worse than a hobbyist that reeks of body odor is one that smells of a pungent, repulsive deodorant. Using an unscented deodorant/antiperspirant combo works great eliminating bacterial odors. If you tend to sweat or perspire a lot, your doctor can prescribe something stronger.

Do not select just any cologne!

Visit a reputable store that excels in customer service and a broad selection of fragrances such as Nordstrom. For those hobbyists comfortable enough with their companions to join them go for it! It always helps to get your partner’s input. The best time to shop is in the morning when your body chemistry is fresh and your sense of smell uncluttered by a day’s worth of contamination by smog, exhaust, restaurants and the like. Before you hit the stores, decide on a few adjectives that best describe your personal style and the scent you would like to exude. Personally, I always select a fragrance that is spicy and earthy. Whether as a hobbyist your style is musky, sweet, grassy or earthy, your description will eliminate many choices and make the clerk’s life much easier! I highly recommend spending a bit more and purchasing a high end fragrance. They are quite pure, more unique and last much longer! An exotic fragrance is a sex magnet for every escort. I do not lie!

How to apply your scent

Is just as important as what scent you select. It is critical not to ‘drown’ yourself. Immediately following your shower when the skin is damp, dab your cologne in target areas. Keep in mind where your companion’s lips may be drawn and do not go there! While an intoxicating scent can be a powerful aphrodisiac, tasting it can be repulsive. Some good areas include behind the ears, the backs of the knees, wrists and a little on the chest. Be cautious about applying or spraying cologne on to your clothing as many scents can stain.

Wear clothing that doesn’t suffocate

Don’t spoil it all by wearing garments that do not breathe. Whether you live in a hot, cold or humid climate, threads matter. For all you hobbyist gents who think that I’m getting complicated, hold onto your shorts! Once you get this knowledge under your belt, your sensual life will become much easier. Cotton blends are the best, especially if your clothing is clingy. Synthetic blends such as polyester do not breathe and may actually promote perspiration. If you live in a cold climate layer your clothing. If you live in a warm climate, beware of linen shirts as they are suckers for [body odor] stain.

Fresh breath is just as important as wearing an expensive cologne

Two words for every hobbyist and every independent escort: avoid garlic. While you may appear like a Greek god, sport deep pockets and drive a car fueled with testosterone, the bubble is sure to burst if your breath smells like a culinary sewer. For any escort, there is simply no greater turn off next to body odor and rudeness for that matter. Obviously, you must adapt a certain level of awareness as it pertains to your diet when considering fresh breath that actually attracts your companion. If the garlic and onions somehow find their way into your diet due to a company dinner, have on hand some good breath supplements which you can pop immediately following that decadent meal (orderable online or purchasable at your local health food store). Fortified with parsley and other effective ingredients, they are sure to do the trick and eradicate that foul breath. Prior to your date, brush well and gargle with mouthwash. Carry a traveler’s pack in your car for spontaneous use. Avoid the following ingredients on your date: garlic, onions and any cuisine that is heavily spiced. Consume plenty of water during your date with your companion. Simply put, smoking is a no no! Ugh. Yuck. Gross.

City Girls wants you to smell like success

Where can hobbyists find lessons in etiquette? Right here at City Girls! If your masculinity is beating at your chest, quell that manly whisper and know that we care about the quality of your love life. Follow our words of wisdom and you will thank us!

Before Entering a Casual Relationship

Posted on March 3, 2013 by Chloė

Casual relationships are often referred to as “friends with benefits” (FWB). An exciting encounter can be essential to a man’s or a woman’s lifestyle. Casual relationships are no longer enjoyed just by players.

Nowadays, there are many reasons why a companion or hobbyist will seek a casual relationship. But we cannot forget the human element and its need for emotional fulfillment on some level, recognizing that all casual relationships are date stamped. In the meantime, City Girls would like to explore a few tidbits of advice on how you can get the most out of a casual relationship that will flourish with fun and sensual excitement.

Courtesy counts for both the companion and the hobbyist

Just because it’s an FWB relationship doesn’t mean that you are exempt from polite behavior. Friends deserve courtesy just as much as a wives, husbands, elders and bosses. If you must break an engagement, do it with as much advance notice as possible. Make sure that your excuse is valid and doesn’t offend your partner. Excessive cancelations are just unacceptable. If that’s the case, it’s better to be in a relationship with yourself. Whether you are a hobbyist or an independent escort, total disconnect is a great and inconsiderate way to confuse your friend. Communicate your boundaries and stick to them without creating a guessing game otherwise known as drama.

Respect prevails in any type of relationship

We all have needs. Just because it’s a casual relationship doesn’t mean that man or woman should treat each other as emotionless sex objects (okay, well maybe you are a mega machine in the sack but you’re still human!) Take heed of your friend’s time, feelings and emotions. These actions do not imply that you will automatically merge into a long term relationship (unless that’s what is meant to happen); it just means that you are honoring the boundaries of the FWB interactions. On the other hand, if you remain casual but your partner shows signs of deeper involvement that is known as a conflict of interest. Out of respect for each other, it is time to re-evaluate the relationship. I have never understood why anyone in any sort of relationship would fail to respect the other. That is just poor character.

A girlfriend experience may be considered a casual relationship

While I may be venturing off track a bit, I think it is worth mentioning that the definition of the girlfriend experience has broadened to take on a wider array of interpretations as to how a companion will conduct herself. There are those independent escorts (some ladies refer to themselves as elite courtesans) who maintain ongoing relationships with their clients that take on characteristics of a casual relationship. And then there is the sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship which is often casual. Perhaps these types of casual relationships are easier for the partners to remain within their boundaries because each party plays a role: companion and hobbyist (or client).

The casual relationship enjoys its freedom

Freedom is not only about dating as many people as you want although this kind of freedom does fall into the description of most hobbyists. But for many (and especially independent escorts), freedom gained from being in a casual relationship equals the flexibility to devote attention to other areas of your life while having your erotic needs met. Whether for hobbyist or companion, taking on all of the obligations associated with a traditional relationship doesn’t fit into the scope of the lifestyle that a casual relationship satisfies. Void are weekend barbeques with your partner’s family where you must be in your Sunday best; attending work functions when you’d rather be getting your nails done or watching the game or keeping the house clean 24/7.

When does the fun expire?

Every casual relationship has an expiration date. Usually, one partner changes his or her needs or desires or meets someone else. Or, both simply tire of each other and decide to move on. In any case, acknowledging that this is neither a long term relationship nor a one-night booty call will allow FWB to flow with ease. Most of the time, the concept of remaining friends (and I am talking about true friendship) after a casual relationship has ended is false and unlikely to happen.

So boys and girls, if you are lucky enough to fulfill your physical needs in a spicy, steamy, casual relationship, more power to you. Live in the moment, treat the relationship with the respect it deserves and don’t worry about tomorrow. City Girls will take care of that!

What Makes a Woman Tick

Posted on January 27, 2013 by Chloė

Every woman wants to look beautiful. More importantly, every woman wants to feel sexy. While our independent escorts definitely have mastered their physical beauty, how can a hobbyist know for sure if an escort truly feels sexy?

Aaah. That is the secret and the answer lies within each independent escort. Learn what makes your woman tick and you’ve discovered the Holy Grail of gratification.

Here at City Girls we are proud to boast that all of our independent escorts look like they stepped right out of a Victoria’s Secret fashion show. You know, the ones where angelic bombshells strut silky nothings in the highest of heels. Truthfully speaking (and I’m a woman, so I get to say it), even if an escort is unsure about her sexiness, you can bet that somewhere inside she longs to be in touch with her ‘inner desire’.

What turns on an escort?

Before you get your knickers in a knot, we’re talking more about psychology here, boys and girls. While I’m not a psychologist, there are a few theories that ring true. Did you know that women’s desire is often referred to as responsive desire? Responsive desire is when a woman reacts to some kind of initiation. Any kind of advance by her man whether it’s a flattering compliment, an enjoyable conversation that triggers a connection, a romantic dinner that builds sensual energy or a soft caress on her cheek can trigger that ‘mode’ inside of her. Response can take more than a minute or two and doesn’t mean that she is nonresponsive if it does take a little longer.

In contrast, a lot of men are more about spontaneous desire. Examples: as a hobbyist, you are in the middle of a business meeting and for no apparent reason an idea pops into your head that you would love to have a little action right about now. Or, you are walking the dog and a thought blocks all others about how amazing it would be to have a beautiful woman in your arms.

Female sexual empowerment is emerging in our culture

Nowadays, women have become more comfortable with having their own income and certainly their independence. Independent escorts are no exception. So why shouldn’t an independent escort feed her desire with actions and triggers that pleasure her most? While every woman has her personal curve of desire, many are taking advantage of sexuality workshops, female enhancement products, toys and even sexy yoga.

When an escort is comfortable she can reach for the stars

Why all this attention about what makes a woman tick? Independent escorts are more self-aware than they have ever been and perhaps are seeking spontaneous ways to express their sensual sides. As a hobbyist and partner, acknowledging and feeding an escort’s sensual expression can only benefit both of you especially when it’s about the girlfriend experience. In other words, stir the pot and watch her grow hungry with desire! Throw in a dash of patience and you’ve got a recipe for an explosive relationship.

Finding True Girlfriends in the Escort Industry

Posted on November 28, 2012 by Chloė

There are those women who have a knack for collecting the coolest of girlfriends. However, for many independent escorts, it’s a challenge to find lasting girlfriends – those who withstand the test of time and are there for you through thick and thin, the good, the bad and the ugly.

I’ve heard sad stories from independent escorts how other escorts screwed them over, dumped them or went psycho on them. Competitiveness and lack of trust seem to lurk in the dark corners of the adult industry and we at City Girls find that disheartening.

For some reason, it’s even more difficult to find true girlfriends in the escort industry

It’s one thing to uphold your personal standards when it comes to finding and maintaining girlfriends outside of the world of escorting. It’s quite another when you find yourself immersed in a sensual world of having fun and making good money. One morning you wake up and find yourself lonely with no one to talk to because you don’t have escort girlfriends (or those who are open-minded about your career as an entertainer) who understand who you are and what you do. As a woman, I would like to explore some of the principals of female friendships.

If she competes with you, she’s not your friend. Period.

Competition is not limited to just business. Even at City Girls, you are surrounded by other Club Members who are doing the same work as you – escorting. But there’s plenty to go around in life! However, if your escort girlfriend does things behind your back like talk about you or worse, try to sabotage your business, not only is she not a friend but she’s an enemy. Sometimes competition occurs on a more subliminal level. If you go shopping with your escort girlfriend, ask her opinion about a pair of shoes and she doesn’t like them, chances are she’s giving you her honest opinion. But if next week you see her wearing the same exact shoes, chances are she was competing with you because she wanted the shoes for herself. A girlfriend who competes with you is grounds for dismissal. You are better off spending an evening with your cat or going out alone than with a girlfriend who doesn’t understand or value what the word means.

Female energy is contagious

You’ve seen it and experienced it. Two women are standing at the cash register in a department store and strike up a conversation about hair products. They’ve never met. However, one could be fooled into thinking that they are long time girlfriends. That’s the power of feminine energy! On a deeper level, your escort girlfriend should empower you with genuine compliments, support and patience. She should be there for you when you get down or feel sad (though it’s not good to dump on friends on the time). You should be able to trust her. Now, there are varying tiers of friendships in which not every friend is going to be your confidante. Some friends are stronger than others in feeling your pain or praising your successes while others may not have the emotional band with due to their own issues. It’s up to you to gauge this energy and balance those friendships appropriately.

You are who your friends are

As an independent escort, if you are a dynamic woman with many interests, who likes to travel, shop, work hard, make lots of money and who aspires to accomplish things in life, your friends should share some of these similarities. Being an escort does not define who you are just as being a secretary or doctor does not define the person. Character and integrity define the person. So if you look around and find that your friends are problematic, non supportive, only around when you’re happy-go-lucky or mooch off of you because you make good money, time to weed your social garden. Even if you end up with no friends, don’t be afraid to dust the cob webs off your social life because they were never friends to begin with. As an independent escort, the only way you are going to find true girlfriends in the escort industry is if you are aligned with your true self. One true girlfriend is better than ten fake girlfriends. Don’t be afraid to recognize that they aren’t true girlfriends. You are a bigger person if you do.

Is your escort girlfriend fraught with insecurity?

Whether she’s an escort, a housewife or a diplomat, if a woman is insecure it is because she does not have the resources within herself to appreciate the beauty and radiance in her girlfriends. An escort who is secure in herself has strength! She feels pretty in her own right, doesn’t feel less than others, loves her ‘sisters’ and finds great happiness in rewarding them with compliments. This is not to say that we all don’t have an insecurity floating around somewhere inside. We do! For example, fear of failure can be considered an insecurity but a huge motivator to succeed. That’s turning an insecurity into a positive!

At City Girls every interaction is a mini relationship

Part of finding happiness and fulfillment in life is achieved through establishing fruitful relationships. As an independent escort, it’s good to have at least one true girlfriend who does what you do. I have met many amazing women in this industry who are success powerhouses, have beautiful children, and/or are money-making machines with hearts of gold. One of my best and dearest friends is a courtesan. So ladies, it is quite possible to make true girlfriends in the escort industry. But you must first really get to know yourself and be happy with the person who you are. You will in turn, attract escort girlfriends who compliment you.

Five Things You Didn’t Know About Sex

Posted on November 24, 2012 by Chloė

By default, artists are allowed creative outlets sometimes in bazaar and eccentric ways. We accept this because art is a fundamental expression of the soul whether basic or sophisticated. By the same token, hobbyists and providers should feel exhilarated about their urges and desires. City Girls has identified five things that you may or may not know about the properties of sex:

The man with an average sex life is more likely to live past 80 years of age
What is ‘average’ to you? Once a week? Twice a month? City Girls believes the more frequent the better when it comes to good health. Physical expression is a form of stress relief, a sensually creative outlet that release endorphins known to rejuvenate the body and soul. That’s more effective than going to the gym every day! Expressing yourself with your lady is not only pleasurable but healthy. A little loving coupled with a smooth, red wine and you’ve got a recipe for longevity!
The shoe and the foot are two of the most common fetishes in Western society
There is no bigger turn on that an escort whose feet are buttery soft and neatly groomed. Whether her toes are natural with the nails buffed, painted a brilliant red or clean French pedicure, they conjure erotic fantasies in the mind of any hobbyist. Touch them, kiss them, stroke the arch. Ask her to massage you with her feet. Better yet, feast on her beautiful soles as she parades around you in a pair of strappy, glimmering stilettos. Resist removing them as she wraps her legs all around you. Combined with the girl friend experience, a foot and shoe fetish is enough to send any man over the edge of ecstasy.
90% of men and 65% of women ‘get together with themselves’
No one talks about it but everyone’s doing it (well, almost everyone). Occasionally, we need a quick fix. Whether your self-loving is elaborate and ceremonious or simply a basic act to quell a nagging need, self-satisfaction is a natural part of human nature. Women probably talk about it more than men. I’ve had girlfriends who talk about their self-quenching acts as naturally as the new outfit they bought last week. Why not?
Second only to the bedroom, the most common place for a sensual encounter is the car
It’s midnight as you and your date enter the car. Her sweet perfume surrounds you. The cold leather of the seat begins to warm. Soft music radiates from the dashboard as you drive in a trance and her hand reaches for yours. You’re floating on a glorious evening of dining but your desires are starving. The stop light offers a once-in-a-lifetime moment as your lean over to steal a scrumptious kiss that sends electric shocks down your body. Suddenly, you’re 21 again and the minutes race as you’re now parked on a dark street with the two of you in the back and a fiery youth has returned! I don’t need to say more…
Endorphins act as pain killers
Whether it’s a headache, a backache or stress from a hard day at the office, these delectable little neurotransmitters produce analgesia (pain killer) and an overall feeling of well being. And where do you get them? Certainly, not over the counter! You can go to the gym, indulge in a spicy meal or partake in wild love with your girlfriend for the night and all of those griping pains will melt away.

City Girls likes to live life to the fullest!
And so should you. Express yourself in a way that feels good. Just when you feel that you’re being decadent, remember that your health is the beneficiary as you are living in the moment. Not many can make that claim!

The Power of Lingerie

Posted on November 17, 2012 by Chloė

Lingerie speaks to the subtle or demanding about fashion, power and sexuality

The word lingerie is an old French term meaning linge or linen. It was originally introduced into the English language as a euphemism for scandalous underclothing. The actual term lingerie did not become widespread until the 1850’s. From the feminine and boyish to the painful and practical, lingerie has a rich history and reveals a lot about a society’s social and political values.

The bra and panty set

Every escort claims in her collection of lingerie several of these magical sets. Delicate lace gently hugging the shape of a her breasts can be intoxicating. A satin push up bra can lend to exquisite cleavage which alone will compel her lover’s fantasy. When his eyes fall to the lucky panty affectionately embracing her hips and secret treasure, suddenly two garments minimal is size shroud his desire with a erotic spell. Whether these delightful bits of thread concealing her feminine charms remain intact or are feverishly removed by hungry hands, the bra and panties have done their job and mad lust is to be made.

Black Lace Body Suit

While a companion may assertively adorn her body for you in one of these addictive pieces of lingerie, a hobbyist very well may have to make the request. This devilish little number may not be something your lady fancies as sleepwear but it is certainly a dark and delightful stimulant to loads of vigorous fun. Some body suits hold a naughty little opening conveniently located and noticeable when straddling the legs of your lady. The black lace body suit unquestionably worships the shape of a woman’s physique lighting fire to even the most tepid of libidos.

Garter Belts

Oh la la! Garter belts just may be the euphoria of lingerie. A shimmery suspender that opens to reveal a thong that disappears between your companion’s legs is poetry waiting to be expressed through the bodily language of love.

The Corset

Panels of mystical, floral embroidery that stretch tightly around her waist, molding her curves, can be visually mind blowing. While some corsets politely shape the breasts, others sinfully reveal the breasts, jutting and probing them forward into the mouth of their suitor. Every escort should lay claim to at least one corset.

The superior sexiness of stockings

Even the least expensive stockings are better than no stockings. However, if you are a hobbyist who is a true connoisseur, the sleek fineness of a silk stocking with just a lick of lace to hold in place surrounding the top of the thigh is deliciously preferred. The heavenly caress of a silk stocking does not lie.

All of us here at City Girls recognize that sensuality makes the world go ‘round

It is the bare essence of human nature since the beginning of time. The visual appeal of sexuality is far reaching whether it’s present in political marketing, indulgence in cuisine, fashion or the privacy of your bedroom. We get it and our independent escorts speak the language of lingerie.

5 Secrets Hobbyists Want Escorts to Know

Posted on October 13, 2012 by Chloė

Many folks tend to believe that the male mind it’s wired differently than its female counterpart. While that may or may not be true, we all come from the same planet. It’s important and even beneficial to understand each other especially as hobbyists and escorts. City Girls has quickly become the ears of the community, so to speak.

We hear all sorts of goodies from our VIP Members and receive lots of feedback from our independent escorts. Let’s talk about five of the most notable things that we have detected between our Club members:

Men like to be seduced

An escort empowers the fantasy when she takes the lead by seducing her man, allowing her desires for him be known. Given that a man learns at a young age to pursue a woman, relinquishing that innate gender role in exchange for being showered with the intoxication of a woman who is charged by desire for him is flattery at its finest. Seduction is an art that can be learned and lies at the core of every successful escort to bestow upon her client.

Men are more similar to women than we realize

Often, men harbor a side that is emotional and tender which runs contrary to the psychological branding that society has imposed on our culture since the beginning of time. In contrast, we expect women to be emotional. Many hobbyists seek to privately shed the armor that they wear in day to day corporate and personal life to explore sexual tendencies and emotions without inhibition within the safe and discreet world that an escort provides. Taking this scenario to the next level involves role playing and role reversal.

Men love lingerie

An escort wearing lingerie is a compliment to her date and what hobbyist can resist such flattery? Even bad lingerie is better than no lingerie. Many undergarments can also be worn as outer garments such as a silk camisole beneath a fitted blazer. Lingerie lends to the fantasy that a gentleman creates in his mind. Many times, he desires his escort to invent a fantasy for him. Whether or not his escort remains adorned with the leather or lacey piece for 30 seconds, 10 minutes or throughout their entire date, lingerie imparts the fantasy and arouses desire.

Make porn part of your encounter

A lot of women in the conventional world are threatened or intimidated by watching others engage in sexual acts. Some even get angry when they see that their men are stimulated sexually. Once again, it’s about the fantasy that the movie imparts, the forbidden suggestion that it’s okay to become aroused by what the actors are doing. An escort who has liberated herself from the stigma of shame attached to watching porn is a woman who has a willingness to understand her man’s needs and desires. While not every hobbyist is into watching porn, I’d say a good majority react favorably.

Men like to cuddle

To say that all men think only about sex is a myth. Cuddling can be expanded to include a gentle touch, a caress, a kiss with meaning or an intimate conversation. Many men are equal to or more emotionally sensitive than women. They just don’t always show it. While the private world that is created between an escort and a hobbyist ends when the date concludes, a man likes to know that his escort has a genuine interest in him and cares about his needs and feelings, if only for those few hours. This is where we get the term ‘Girl Friend Experience’. In fact, many hobbyists tend to see the same escort many times to come because of the connection he feels to her. Cuddling envelops that connection and folds meaning into the relationship.

Often, a hobbyist is looking for something missing in his life

City Girls believes that a hobbyist engages with an escort not solely because he looks for physical gratification but because he seeks interaction with a woman skilled and versed in the matters of pleasure and intimacy. There exists a sensual and even spiritual union between a hobbyist and an escort when they connect and sparks are kindled.

Couples Escorts: Ménage a Tois – When 2 is Not Enough

Posted on May 13, 2012 by Chloė

Couples escorts: Do you have a gnawing urge that something is lacking in your relationship? Maybe you fantasize about watching your girlfriend with another woman.

Maybe she wants you to watch her and then join in the fun. Perhaps you need to expand your horizon a bit and rev things up between you and your lady. City Girls believes that intimacy begins in the mind and isn’t limited to just two people.

Bedroom therapy can actually strengthen a relationship

Sexual communication between couples should be a very real part of every relationship. In an optimal situation, openness toward one another’s needs is as familiar as talking about what you are going to have for dinner. But not every relationship is optimal. Unfortunately, talking about each other’s erotic and personal needs can be a delicate matter and risk ending in disagreement, misunderstood feelings or worse, an argument. Often, the man will not want to risk offsetting this tender balance with his woman and forego the taboo topic of sexuality all together. But, there’s light at the end of the tunnel! You see, in today’s progressive world of heightened communication, introducing a third party to your relationship can actually be therapeutic, if done properly. But where on this blessed earth can you find such an ideal environment? City Girls has the answer. Go ahead. Read on!

Let a City Girls’ club member coach you on intimacy communication

Let’s talk balance. You and your girl recognize a tingling desire to take your love life to another level. You’ve explored the obvious and gone scouting at bars. It was fun and exciting until one woman came on to you and ignored her, triggering jealousy with which she had to wrestle, throwing off the entire evening. Or, another woman recognized how hot your lady is and came on to her leaving you isolated in the dust. Right off the bat, the two of you can’t even enjoy the sensual dynamic at play because the situation is skewed with contradictory emotions that smolder the moment. You both go home, at least one of you disappointed. In a controlled environment, things would have played out in a more fruitful manner.

City Girls’ couples escorts have a fundamental understanding and specialize in awareness of the tender intricacies that exist between a man and a woman. They will approach your situation neutral, with no hidden agenda (like what you experienced with those other ladies in the bar) and know how to handle all of the subliminal nuances that even you might not recognize. Incorporating a City Girls’ couples escorts into your evening might not feel like sensual coaching but that’s the whole idea!

Let your girlfriend have the fun first

We all know that men and women think differently. Whether the idea to introduce a third person into the situation was yours or hers doesn’t matter. Be a good boy, suck it up and let her bask in the attention while you watch. Not only will you get ridiculously turned on but you will reap the rewards and become King in her eyes by letting her take the lead. With a City Girls’ couples escort, you’ll get the balance you’ve been seeking which can make for an explosive encore.

Enjoy the sweet nectar that results from nurturing your intimacy

When you and your lady connect with a City Girls’ couples escort, things can get as sublime or spicy as you like. All of the City Girls’ couples escorts really look like their photos in person. Whether you personally select a match or do it together with your lady, have fun with it! Your City Girls’ club member is going to be your girlfriend for the evening. When it’s all said and done, you and your lady will feel rich with satisfaction and closer than ever. Who knows? You both might even decide to do it all over again!

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