“As a hobbyist, familiarizing yourself with the do’s and don’ts of escort/hobbyist etiquette will only improve your reputation as a desirable and sought after gentleman thereby enriching your hobby with priceless experiences and rewarding relationships.”

You’ve made a decision to contact an independent escort through City Girls. Maybe this is your first time or maybe you’re a seasoned hobbyist. You don’t have to be an experienced hobbyist to become a VIP member of City Girls. But you do need to prepare yourself for some initial procedures characteristic of meeting an escort anywhere, anytime, not just City Girls. Some hobbyists have adopted the misconception that it’s all about the girls and what they can do for them. Not true. In the world of hobbying, it’s a two way street and those hobbyists who fail to recognize this ethic are greatly missing out. So even if you’ve been around the bend as a hobbyist and know your stuff, read on. There are at least a few bits of valuable information from which you can benefit.

Hobbyist screening and how it works

Whether or not you are new to the hobby, be prepared to provide qualified verification as standard procedure in the escort world. There are a few methods:

1. Provider references – having seen other providers who will vouch for you is a great endorsement. But if you don’t have this kind of reference, there are other options;

2. Employment verification- does that sound scary? It shouldn’t. Escorts and hobbyists alike are equally focused on safety and anonymity. Rest assured, we’re all in the same boat. Highly Secured Call Center performs a discreet and professional employment verification, never disclosing the nature of the call;

3. Room Service 2000 (RS2K) – you can simplify the whole verification process as a hobbyist once and for all by purchasing a membership with RS2K. In doing so, you will go through the verification process only once. City Girls upholds an RS2K verification, lending priority to your inquiry. (learn more how to get a FREE RS2K membership when booking with City Girls first time FREE RS2K Membership for New VIP Members)

Even if you are known for providing stellar escort reviews you must still complete the verification process if you want to become a member of City Girls. Even if you have a handle or reviews on any of the boards or forums you must complete the verification process. You must provide your real name because you will be required to show your photo identification at the onset of your appointment with a City Girls escort.

Hobbyist hygiene

In case your mother never mentioned, practicing good hygiene is not only sanitary, but highly appreciated in the eyes of every woman. This doesn’t mean slapping on some cologne to mask the sweaty remnants of a stressful day. Just as your date will tediously prepare herself for your encounter, take the time to shower, shave, groom yourself and dress decently and presentable. Sometimes life gets in the way. Maybe you had to stay late at the office, got caught in traffic or got held up at the airport and have no time to refresh less you miss your appointment. Place a courtesy call to your date. Most of the time, escorts will have a private shower and toiletries available whether at their incall or outcall so that you can take care of business upon your timely arrival and make a shining first impression.

A punctual hobbyist means a successful date

Prior to meeting your date, pace yourself and be conscientious that your schedule can accommodate leaving the office, getting ready, commuting (Highly Secured Call Center will provide you with directions to your location to ensure that you don’t getting lost), traffic and parking. Sometimes fate will have its way and you will be a little late. The kiss of death occurs when a hobbyist either takes timeliness for granted and neglects to place a courtesy call to his date because he doesn’t think it’s important. When scheduling your initial appointment with an escort through City Girls’ Highly Secured Call Center, adopt the guideline that canceling is not an option. It’s just a good rule of thumb. If you feel a sense of doubt that you won’t be able to keep your appointment, wait. When you are certain of your schedule, call back and set the appointment. You’ll be glad you did. If you really want to get yourself blacklisted not only with City Girls but in the world of escorting in general, don’t show up at all. That is a major no no. City Girls places great value in respectful and courteous hobbyists whose escort members do the same.

Escorts love gifts

If you want to put a smile on the beautiful face of an escort, arrive with a gift. If you want to enamor her and have her shower you with (even more) attention, bring her a small, discreet gift that fits in your coat pocket or the palm of your hand and doesn’t draw attention to passers by. The last thing you want to do is select an oversized gift, raising the suspicion of hotel employees and creating an awkward awareness of your date during the remainder of her stay. It goes without saying that gifts are not donations. They are separate. Here’s a little hint: if she has a website, it will usually feature a section of her favorite gifts. Now, you’re really going to get on the good side of your date and City Girls as well!

Hobbyists should always practice discretion

City Girls recommends arriving at the location of your date about 10 minutes prior. Your appointment was scheduled at a specific time for a reason. Escorts have schedules and private lives just like you. Showing up too early (earlier than 10 minutes) is inappropriate and should never cause reason to complain either to your date or City Girls. Doing so will ruin the moment and create an indelible impression. If you happen to beat the traffic and arrive unfashionably early, take advantage. Grab the newspaper, have a seat at the bar and catch up on current events. As you will learn after having contacted City Girls you will need to call Highly Secured Call Center to request the room number of your date. Discreetly slip away, perhaps to the restroom or lobby where you can place a quiet phone call without drawing the attention of nosy neighbors or gawking employees. Better yet, call from your cell phone as you are parking if the timing is right.

City Girls believes in good ethics

You may have heard the expression “you will always catch more bees with honey”. While it may sound silly, the saying can be applied to gentlemen who are respectful, decent and polite toward ladies. A little goes a long way – respectful dialect, courteous manners, opening a door for her, treating her has your equal. If such manners are not something that you normally think about, you will be truly amazed at the higher level of quality of your date. On the other hand, if you are one of those unfortunate men who take pleasure in disrespect, condescension, foul language or hostility in the presence of a lady, City Girls is definitely not the club for you.

By following these simple yet important words of advice, you will gain an immediate grasp as a hobbyist and even an edge over many other hobbyists. Take heed when crafting your reputation as a hobbyist because relationships are everything, just like in any other avenue of life. Hobbyists and escorts alike share a common thread of courtesy, respect, good hygiene and etiquette. This is what City Girls is all about.

Written by Chloė, City Girls’ Membership Coordinator